Pictorial fragments from the past week

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This week's Friday Fragments has, very conveniently, been put off till Saturday which means I didn't have to be incredibly rude and spend part of Christmas Day hiding away behind the laptop in order to participate. Of course just because I didn't have to have net time yesterday doesn't mean I stayed completely away.... I'm so addicted. Head on over to Half-Past Kissin' Time for more fragments from the festive season.

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Our camping trip to Fingal Bay last weekend kicked off to a great start with us stuck in a traffic jam on the freeway, we took 2.5 hours to travel about 5km. I was able to get online from my phone and find out that the reason for the jam was a caravan accident, that there was a rescue helicopter on the road and that all lanes were closed. So we resigned ourselves to being late and were very grateful for cool weather, fully charged Nintendo DS's and that it wasn't us who'd managed to flip their huge caravan and have the roof of their 4WD removed (not sure if that was due to the accident or the rescuing). We arrived with just enough time up our sleeves to get the tent all set up before the light faded.

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The next morning Tom was ready to head to the beach at 7am but, as it was still quite overcast and cool and we had shopping that needed doing, we made him wait for a while. By the time we got to the beach there was not a cloud in the sky and we were all well and truly ready to get wet. The water was crystal clear and FREEZING but that didn't stop anyone - not even me, but there are no pictures to prove that ;-)

This was about as big as the waves got.

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On Christmas Eve we went to Adam's brother's place for lunch. I made a Greek salad and a pear, blue cheese and walnut salad, and we took some prawns along as our contributions to the meal and we sat around eating and talking while the kids played in the swimming pool. It's possible Caitlin may have been in there just a little too long.

Wrinkly fingers!

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Christmas lunch was at my Mum's place and we were very happy that my 99 year old Grandma was able to join us. It was quite an effort for her to be there but she was glad to be there and, as I told her, it's such a wonderful thing for the kids to know their Great Grandma and be able to share special occasions with her. As we sat around the table after the meal Caitlin ran off and grabbed her new sketchbook and Derwent pencils and drew a portrait of Great Grandma which she then gave to her to take home. I think it was a bit of a hit.

Caitlin with Great Grandma

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Caitlin scored big on the art front for Christmas, as well at the set of 72 Derwent watercolour pencils, she got a desk easel with paints, brushes, a palate and a couple of canvases, they seem to have gone down well.

Caitlin painting a dragon

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One of Tom's presents was a drawing kit with a book on how to draw mythological creatures, this has been a huge success with Adam and Caitlin getting in on the act as well. This one is a collaborative effort between Tom and Daddy.

Dragon by Tom (with some help from Dad)

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Today we have eschewed all the traditional Boxing day pursuits of movie going, sales shopping, cricket or Sydney to Hobart yacht race watching and have spent the day lazing around doing nothing much. Adam did get a bit energetic for a while though and whipped up a loaf of Ginger Beer Bread using the Spiced Ginger Loaf recipe from our bread machine's instruction book and using Lord Nelson Old Admiral beer in place of water. It was pretty damn good.

Bread, cheese, ham and pickles. Perfect.

The times they are a-changing

When Adam and I married I pretty much co-opted him into our family Christmas traditions, when Christmas lunch was at my mum's place we'd have lunch with his parents and then head over to join my family, if my family were further afield for the day we'd go to them for lunch and see his parents in the evening on the way home. That became less fun when we had small kids - traveling for an hour across Sydney in the heat on Christmas day was pretty hideous and after one particularly bad experience involving visits to three different homes, stifling heat and a blanket of smoke and ash from bushfires over most of Sydney we called it quits. Besides, my siblings and cousins were all starting to have partners' families to see and getting everyone together was getting harder and harder.

Eventually we stopped trying to see my cousins, Aunts and Uncles on Christmas Day, sometimes we manage to see them at a family gathering sometime close to Christmas - perhaps a picnic one weekend in December, or as we did this year at my Grandmother's birthday party - but we don't exchange gifts anymore.

In recent years we've tried to alternate spending Christmas Day with either my family or Adam's. Ideally my brother and sister and their families do the same and we try to synchronise so that we're all together for Christmas lunch in the years when it's my family's turn. It's worked out pretty well a few times, last year we all managed to be together at my Mum's place for lunch - 9 adults and 8 kids. This year I invited Adam's brother and family to our place for Christmas lunch but they decided they'd rather do lunch on Christmas Eve at their place so we're taking my mother-in-law there tomorrow and bringing her to my Mum's place on Christmas Day for a quiet lunch with just us, my Mum and Dad and my Grandma. My brother's family will be up in the Blue Mountains with his in-laws and my sister probably won't be home yet after having had her 3rd baby by c-section on Monday this week. Yep, I'm an aunty again :-)

Adam grew up with a somewhat different experience of Christmas. His family did not travel at all on Christmas Day, they stayed at home and had a traditionally seasonally inappropriate baked dinner and Christmas pudding lunch just for their immediate family with Adam's Grandma sometimes there as a house-guest. Afterwards they would all pile into the car on Boxing Day and head north to Gosford to spend the day with the extended family, but on Christmas Day itself, no going nowhere! So it was quite a shock to the system for Adam to be dragged all over the city on Christmas Day. Lately Adam has been expressing a desire to celebrate Christmas the way he grew up doing it and for Reasons^TM* I've begun to see the merits of the idea.

In fact we're both very much inclined to say that this will be the last year that we go anywhere for Christmas Day, we'll be very happy to have any and everyone come to our house to celebrate the day with us but we're staying put. I'm tired of the dragged out process of deciding who is going to be where and what, if any, presents we're giving each other and not knowing for sure until well into December what I'm expected to do for the big day.

Some things won't change for a good few years yet though. There'll still be fruit mince pies, milk AND beer** for Santa and carrots and a water bucket for the Reindeer - they make a terrible mess every time, water spilled everywhere and carrot fragments all over the front deck - and the kids waking up way too early. It doesn't seem to matter to them that they've known about the whole Santa gig for years, it's just not Christmas unless you play the game!

*the sort which are significant but which I don't propose to elaborate upon.

**milk AND beer?! I hear you cry...Look, I grew up leaving the milk out, Adam's family did the beer thing. When David was old enough to notice Christmas we had a discussion and reached an impasse. So we decided to let Santa choose which he wanted, and would you know, he usually has both! Guess flying around in the heat in those ridiculous clothes works up a serious thirst ;-)

Friday Fragments and Linkfest No. 13

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I won't be around to comment on everyone else's Friday Fragments till early next week, we're off camping at the beach for the weekend - wish us good weather and kid-friendly surf!

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Monday morning's car trip to school conversation went like this - Tom: Mum, how old do you have to be to mumble mumble mumble? Me: I can't understand what you're asking. Tom: *repeats* Me: It's like you're speaking a foreign language! Tom: How old do you have to be to have sex? Me: *enlightenment dawns, he was spelling S-E-X and I just wasn't parsing it because I wasn't expecting it*

I do love these philosophical challenges pre-caffeine and with only 2 minutes to adequately answer the question. I think I said something about the age of consent in NSW and the fact that even if you're "old enough" it's not whether you're allowed to that matters, it's whether both you and the person you're with really want to and if you both feel ready for the sort of commitment that being that intimate entails - only with smaller words.

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David went to his end of Year 6 dinner on Monday night.



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From David's page in his school yearbook

• People I Most Admire: My dad because he does medieval re-enactment.
• When I Grow Up I Want To Be: A happy adult.
• Where I See Myself in 10 Years: Successful.

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Caitlin won first prize in the singing section of the school talent quest and Tom came third :-)

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We watched The Fifth Element with the kids on Wednesday night, they hadn't seen it before because David has always vociferously protested that he Does. Not. Want. and we've always given in and watched something else instead. It was the same with Star Wars way back when, we practically had to hold him in a headlock on the couch to make him watch it. Apparently if it's something Dad and Mum like it couldn't possibly be good. But on Wednesday Adam and I told him we were watching whether he liked it or not and when he said he'd go sit in the study we were even meaner and told him he had to sit in the lounge room.

When we got to the bit where the Diva is singing and Leeloo starts kicking butt Tom got very excited and said "I love it when the girl is not the damsel in distress!"

Oh, and do believe David quite enjoyed the movie after all. I apologized for making him sit through it and he said "Yes, it was a bit silly."

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Linkfest time!

Feeling like doing a virtual culinary tour of Sydney? Check out the list of Sydney food bloggers at the end of Helen's post about the Sydney Food Bloggers' Christmas Party.

I HAVE to cook this sometime: Momofuku Bo Ssäm (slow roasted pork)

Continuing the food theme and adding maths to the mix - The Mobius strip bagel. I don't usually eat bagels but I think I may need to go buy some just for this.

Tim Minchin's White Wine in the Sun is available to purchase as a single and 50% of the proceeds from December sales will be going to Autism research.

I object!

I've been hoping to catch this on video for a while now. Clara has strong opinions about just who should be allowed to sit next to me on the lounge and she's not backwards in letting Adam know that it shouldn't be him.


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Wordless Wednesday

Snuggles

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25 Things You Had No Desire to Know

Meme time. Because I can.

1. Name someone with the same birthday as you. Alfred Matthew "Weird Al" Yankovic (I googled my birthday expecting to be completely uninterested in the result, but that kind of appeals.)

2. Where was your first kiss? Against the outside wall of the church hall during a youth fellowship social event.

3. Have you ever seriously vandalized someone else’s property? No. Nor humorously either.

4. Have you ever hit someone of the opposite sex? Yes, but only for fun :P

5. Have you ever sung in front of a large number of people? Nope Except for the several times I was responsible for getting an entire movie theatre full of Browncoats to do a sing-a-long, including once when Joss was there...how could I forget that?!

6. What’s the first thing you notice about your preferred sex? Smile.

7. What really turns you off? Bigotry.

8. What do you order at Starbucks? I don't. Starbucks would be pretty much my last resort for coffee. But where ever I order it's either a large skim cappuccino or a double shot espresso depending on time of day.

9. What is your biggest mistake? I have a horrible suspicion that the answer to this is not budgeting over the last couple of years.

10. Have you ever hurt yourself on purpose? No.

11. Say something totally random about yourself. I like pickled onions.

12. Has anyone ever said you looked like a celebrity? Nope.

13. Do you still watch kiddie movies or TV shows? Not if I can help it.

14. Did you have braces? No.

15. Are you comfortable with your height? No, I'm unhealthily short but I'm working on it, apparently if I just follow these 5 easy rules for height-gain I can gain 5cm in just a few weeks. It's a scientriffically proven* system! *Results not typical.

16. What is the most romantic thing someone of the preferred sex has done for you? Married me? That was pretty romantic.

17. When do you know it’s love? When you say "I hate you!" and the person you're speaking to laughs and gives you a hug.

18. Do you speak any other languages? I can count to ten in several...

19. Have you ever been to tanning salon? No.

20. Have you ever ridden in a limo? No.

21. What’s something that really annoys you? The sounds of shooting and explosions in computer games.

22. What’s something you really like? Silence.

23. Can you dance? I don't know about can, but I do dance, dancing is good for the soul.

24. Have you ever been rushed by an ambulance into the emergency room? No.

25. Tag 5 people! I stole it, at her suggestion, from Carmen. If you want it, it's all yours.

Party time!

Our Christmas party on Saturday afternoon and evening seemed to go well, I certainly had fun and I'm pretty sure I wasn't the only one.

We began the afternoon with the traditional sharing of diseases. What? That's not part of your usual Christmas celebrations?

Viv, aka tigtog, fared particularly badly on the contagion front.

A little later on, just as Adam had been obliged to duck out for a few minutes, this strange man dressed in a completely inappropriate fashion for a summer day in Sydney, turned up carrying a sack full of goodies.

The kids seemed to know what he was there for!

After Santa left we got stuck into serious eating of all manner of munchies brought along by our wonderful guests - delicious dips, munchable veggies, scrumptious fruit, tofu balls of awesomeness, salad, shortbread, brownies, cookies, gingerbread, icecreams - thank you so much to everyone! (I'm not going shopping for at least a week.) Clara had a field day clearing up scraps of ham as it was carved but was saved by the wonderful ZB many, many times over from potentially disastrous encounters with chicken bones from the BBQ chooks.

Margaritas and mango daiquiris were distributed, the children stuffed themselves silly with chips and sugar, and we settled down to party on into the night.

Browncoats sure know how to have a good time!


(Ok, that may have been a little bit staged...but only a little!)

Eventually it all got too much for Clara, even the screaming slingshot monkey wasn't enough to get her moving.

There are photos, and even a video, of the exploits of rather later in the evening, but, as both photographer and subjects were rather worse for wear by then, those images will not be seeing the light of day. Suffice to say there was raucous singing along to Meatloaf and The Blues Brothers and I shall leave the rest to your imagination. We finished up with a viewing of Dr Horrible's Sing-a-long Blog, we had to, there was someone who HADN'T SEEN IT!!!

Adam and I got to bed at 4am. It was totally worth it. But I did rather wish I could spend Sunday doing what Clara decided was the best way to deal with the morning after.

Find sunny patch. Flop. Snooze.